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Bill Linnane: I want to turn my 22-year-old daughter’s bedroom into a home office – but she still thinks it’s her room
The author discusses the challenges faced by parents in Ireland due to the ongoing housing crisis, specifically focusing on the predicament of adult children living at home. The primary issue highlighted is the desire of parents to convert their adult children's bedrooms into home offices, a plan often thwarted by the children's continued presence. The author emphasizes the need for a dedicated home office, contrasting it with the perceived unprofessionalism of working from makeshift spaces like laundry rooms, which may negatively impact a worker's professional image during virtual meetings. The narrative introduces a secondary group of 'victims': younger siblings who desire the larger, more desirable rooms occupied by their older, adult siblings. The author's 22-year-old daughter, for instance, occupies the best room in the house, a south-facing room with two windows and excellent views, situated conveniently near the family bathroom. Her 17-year-old brother, on the other hand, is relegated to the 'worst room,' a damp, smaller space with limited natural light, mirroring the author's own childhood experience.
The author details attempts to encourage the daughter to fully move out, including a 'Trojan horse eviction' strategy involving gradually packing her belongings into suitcases whenever she stays at her boyfriend's house. However, these efforts are met with resistance, as the daughter maintains that her primary residence is still the family home, evidenced by her remaining possessions. This situation underscores a broader societal issue: the lack of affordable rental properties and the exorbitant costs associated with them, which force many young adults to remain in their parental homes longer than desired. The article concludes with the author acknowledging that their dream of a home office will remain unfulfilled for several more years, as the housing market realities keep their eldest child in a state of 'living in between' – with one foot out the door but retaining a firm grip on her room at home.
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