
How to Throw a "Stock-the-Bar" Shower
This article outlines the process and etiquette for organizing a "stock-the-bar" shower, a modern alternative to traditional bridal showers. Unlike conventional showers that focus on general home items, this event centers around gifts of spirits and barware, enabling couples to build or enhance their home bar for entertaining. The concept is particularly suited for couples who enjoy crafting cocktails or regularly host gatherings.
The article begins by defining a stock-the-bar shower as a co-ed celebration where guests contribute alcoholic beverages, mixers, and bar tools. It emphasizes that this type of shower can serve as an engagement party or be held closer to the wedding. Juls Sharpley, an Aspen-based wedding planner, highlights the benefit of receiving eclectic bar items like specialty bitters and unique tools. The etiquette section covers essential planning aspects, including who should host, the optimal timing, and who to invite. It notes that couples can host the event themselves, especially if they have recently moved into a new home, making it a combined housewarming and shower. The ideal location is the couple's home to avoid transporting heavy gifts, and invitations should explicitly mention the co-ed nature and any specific liquor preferences.
A key recommendation is the creation of a drink registry to prevent duplicate gifts. Options like local wineries or distilleries, and specialized services such as Thirsty Nest (a wine and spirits registry), are suggested. The article advises a duration of two to three hours for the shower, especially when food is served, and suggests providing substantial finger foods like cheese boards and charcuterie to accompany drinks. Guests should be offered a variety of alcoholic beverages, including the couple's signature cocktail, alongside non-alcoholic options and ample water to encourage responsible consumption.
For entertainment, the article proposes activities such as blind taste tests of spirits or cocktails, with a bottle awarded to the winner. Hiring a sommelier or bartender for a wine tasting or cocktail-making class is also presented as an engaging option. Thoughtful party favors, such as small bottles of spirits, personalized wine stoppers, or custom glassware, are recommended as a token of appreciation for guests. The planning steps reiterate the importance of deciding on a host, creating a guest list (which can be extensive and informal, with digital invites being suitable), and preparing the venue to ensure comfort and ease of movement for guests. The article concludes by emphasizing the need for responsible celebration, suggesting a cutoff time for drinks or arranging ride-sharing credits for guests to ensure their safe return home.
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